@maureen
Active 7 years, 4 months agoName: maureen
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Yes she does live in another city and she is a sales exec for show business and very involved in her looks she helped me out financially in a real bind once. I make friends easily but i have made many mistakes on the type of people who i have put my energy into. I feel like she is sort of family to me because i have none to speak of. I feel like maybe i made a mistake on how i dealt with her by calling her on the carpet one too many times. At one time and for a long time she did treat me with respect. I do hang on to friends for long periods of time when i need to move on. Thanks for responding!
Sometimes there are no logical reasons for emotions.emotions are devoid of rhyme or reason. You have to tell yourself ….it just happened. Your intellect knows what is going on but your emotions are not allowing you to release emotionally from him. You can live without him!you can not make someone come back to you. You have to let them be free to see their own path. Quit beating yourself up for your part. If it is right it just flows even with your faults. He probably doesn’t even know really why he doesn’t feel the same anymore. See yourself as a valuable ,independent human being with much to offer this world.
You have to decide yourself what qualities will make you happy and get very specific about them writing them down will help. Part of the success of visualization is knowing what you want not what others tell you what will make you happy. It is okay to visualize the physical characteristics and a combination of both. You need to look within and get to know yourself and what your needs are to make your heart sing.
This is what i get. You had difficulties with this person which you are overlooking. It is time to get out in the world and pursue new opportunities to meet people. You need to change within and become open to new liasons. You need to open up to people again and come out of your shell. I feel that this person may have a new respect for you if you can do this. You need to see him in a different light and become an independent person quit telling yourself that you cant live without him. You have to see yourself as valuable and not as a victim.
You are telling yourself that you cant live without this person. You can. You cant make choices for other people and you cant make someone come back to you. You need to emotionally release this situation. It is like going through withdrawal from cigarette smoking. You know intellectually what is going on but your emotions aren’t allowing you to move on with your life. If you have no idea what happened it means that this person has a lot of hidden issues which are not the basis for a good relationship.you need to release him for your highest good . I feel like there would be a new relationship in your future if you can do this.
I get the feeling that if you got to know him better there would be some things you would not like about him. There are some hidden factors that you do not know about. I feel that if you can be temperate in your need no to be lonely that love is coming in to your life.
